Here is my guess: Given that your team is apparently talking about this wedding all the time, presumably without your enthusiastic participation, they are probably already aware that you’re not going, and, so long as they’re not needling you about it, are not too fussed. I am also sure you’re right that the bride won’t be too disappointed if you can’t make it; I imagine she has her own mixed feelings about her bosses describing her wedding as
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